Balancing motherhood with running a creative business is no easy feat. But it's a challenge I face every day because I'm doing something I love! On one hand, I’m deeply passionate about photography—I love capturing moments, telling stories, and capturing a memory frozen in time. On the other hand, I’m a stay-at-home mom, managing the daily chaos of raising kids - all while also running a daycare. Trying to grow my business while being fully present for my family sometimes feels like an impossible task, but it's a journey I wouldn't trade for anything.
My son, Pryson, is the reason I started photography. The spark had been there since I was young—I always loved capturing moments—but I held myself back in fear of judgment. I worried about being seen as someone who wasn't truly a photographer, just because I had a camera- so I let self-doubt keep me from really diving in.
However, when my first child - Pryson was born, everything changed. He made me feel like I could accomplish anything, and I couldn't hold my passion back any longer. I wanted to document every moment, capture every little detail, and suddenly, the idea of holding myself back seemed ridiculous.
My husband, Nicholas, must have seen that passion in me because one day, he surprised me with a camera—our friend was selling a Canon Rebel T6 with two kit lenses, and he bought it for me. I was so eager to start that I immediately put the word out: Who wants to model for me tomorrow? I just couldn’t wait to use it.
That was 5 years ago, the very beginning of everything. And while I could go on about how having a supportive spouse has meant the world (and maybe I will in a future entry), the real shift happened when I finally gave myself permission to be a photographer.
When I started my photography business, I had a vision. I wanted to capture real moments, tell stories, and build something sustainable that myself and my children would be proud of. I dreamed of having the flexibility to work for myself while still being there for my kids. I pictured seamless days where I could balance both roles effortlessly—taking client calls, editing in peace, and showing up for my family without feeling torn between the two.
But the reality? It’s been much harder than I expected.
I run a daycare during the day so I can be home with my daughter, Meadow, and by the time the evening rolls around, I’m juggling dinner, baths, and bedtime. Then, when I finally sit down to edit or work on marketing, education, or the many responsibilities that come with operating a creative business – I'm already exhausted. My to-do list is always longer than the time I have, and it’s easy to feel like I’m falling behind, one way or another.
And let’s talk about mom guilt. When I’m focused on my business, I feel like I should be more present with my kids. When I’m in full-on mom mode, I worry that my business is slipping away. It’s a constant back and forth that I'm still learning to navigate.
I’ve learned over time how to structure my day to ensure that I’m present for my family, and equally, present for my business and clients. This balance has made me more efficient, intentional, and focused.
(Or At Least Trying To)
I don’t have all the answers, but I’ve been figuring out what works for me.
• Setting boundaries with my business. I used to say yes to every inquiry, trying to fit clients in whenever I could. Now, I’m realizing that I need to be intentional about when I work and when I focus on family. Not every opportunity is worth sacrificing my time.
• Using the time I have wisely. I squeeze in editing during nap time , batch content for my photography page, and try to plan shoots around my family’s schedule. It’s not perfect, but it helps me keep moving forward.
• Giving myself permission to grow slowly. This is the hardest part. I’ve had to remind myself that just because I’m not moving at the same pace as someone else doesn’t mean I’m failing. My path looks different because my priorities are different. And that’s okay.
By organizing my schedule and setting clear boundaries, I am always able to dedicate my full attention to each project. No matter how full my day gets, your session or project will always be a priority when it’s time for us to work together."
This part is important.
If you have a family member or friend who is a mom trying to build something, support her!
Encouragement, word-of-mouth referrals, and simply showing up make a huge difference.
Moms in creative fields are often the bigger cheerleaders for others - Celebrating wins and sharing businesses. But we also thrive on support from others.
I am always here for my clients and my supporters, just like I'm always here for my family.
A simple share, recommendation, or word of encouragement can make all the difference and go a long way.
If you’re just starting your photography journey, here’s what I wish I had known:
Growth takes time. I’ve been doing this for five years, and while it’s been a slow climb, I’m finally seeing momentum.
A better camera won’t make you a better photographer—understanding light, composition, and storytelling will.
Some of my biggest opportunities have come from connections, not just bookings. Meet other creatives, collaborate, and be open to learning.
Don’t undervalue yourself just because you’re new. Experience matters, but so does your time, effort, and skill.
Some days, you’ll feel like quitting. Push through. If this is your passion, doors will open.
Though it’s a delicate balance, every day reminds me how lucky I am to pursue my passion while raising my family. That passion reflects in every shot I take, as I am constantly inspired by the beautiful moments in my life.
The journey is filled with challenges, but also immense growth and the most wonderful memories.
To anyone else balancing a creative dream with motherhood- keep pushing forward!
Embrace the process, trust your path, I believe in you and remember - you can do anything you set your mind to.